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Re: worried - August 22nd 2023, 07:04 PM

Hey,

It sounds like you might be experiencing a bit of hesitation due to the fact that your relationship is still newer. That's totally okay and there is nothing wrong with wanting to wait until you're a bit more established! You did also say that you're okay with it and it's also perfectly fine if you do decide to have sex with your girlfriend. When it comes to making a decision like that, listen to your gut and do what feels best to you!

If the two of you do decide you want to have sex, having a conversation about it first is so important! It will give both of you the opportunity to express any boundaries and talk about things that you may want to try or that you know you enjoy. Making sure that both of you are comfortable will make it a better experience all-around! Remember that you can also change your mind at any time, as can she.


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