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Re: I need to know - May 23rd 2023, 09:13 AM

Hey there,

I think the best times to talk to her would either be in between classes or on the bus! Both provide opportunities that are typically social and won't be a distraction to learning for either one of you. Since you mentioned that the two of you have never really spoken, I would recommend keeping the conversation simple and casual. For instance, you can bring up something that was talked about in class or you can ask about the hobbies that you know she has. Since it seems like you're already aware of some common interests that the two of you have, perhaps you can also work those into the conversation. Whatever topic you choose, be sure to really listen and show a genuine interest in what she has to say. People typically really appreciate it when they can tell that the other person cares about what they have to say in a conversation.

The most important thing I can tell you is to be yourself! Everyone enjoys having conversations with people that they can tell are genuine, so you won't go wrong as long as you stay true to who you are. I'm sure she'll enjoy having conversations with you. And, as Dez said, if there is any reason that she does not have an interest in continuing conversations, be sure to respect that! I highly doubt that will happen though.

Good luck!


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