Roommate showing abusive behaviors -
February 23rd 2023, 10:21 PM
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[SIZE="a"]So, one of my roommates, we'll call him Tom, has started recently showing signs of being an abuser. The way he's spoken about his previous marriage also lends me to believe that he was abusive towards his former spouse as well. I've not credible evidence, but after witnessing an interaction between him and another of our roommates, I've started worrying.
I noticed this evening that I've started jumping a lot more when he's moving around or doing just about anything, which is a bad sign. I've also come to notice that I seem to want to go to the Emergency Room as I feel safe there, and I don't feel all that safe at home now.
I've also started having sort of waking nightmares where I can see him throwing me across the room or into things, which has me more terrified.
I just don't really know what to do.[/size]
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