[PlutoTheOpposum]

Okay, so If you know me, you'll probably know I've had a LOT of conflict between my mom and my older *adopted* sister. I love both of them, and want to defend both of them, but I'm especially defensive over my sister. My mom told me my sister was telling my mom all of the stuff I had told her, including secret stuff, but I just didn't believe her. Apparently my sister had been distorting my stories and stuff, according to my mom.

I just couldn't---wouldn't believe it. I mean, I trust my older sister a lot. Even AFTER I found out my older sister was spilling all my tea, I stood by her side and defended her. And god, it was so agonizing hearing my mom talking about her.

So recently my sister moved out (she's 20) My parents were mad that it was so sudden. I just...couldn't understand why my parents were so mad. And then we just had two conflicting sides, and both expect me to pick a side. I just couldn't! I wanted to see my older sister.

Now, I titled this "It's getting serious" for a reason. My mom recently called up her foodstamps account, which was supposed to be renewed by now. She was told she only had $1, and then was told that the address for the foodstamps was changed in september. We have almost no food in the house right now, and we were originally told we might not get it fixed until January.
My mom says that my older sister did it--that she was the only one who could've. I have no way of contacting her, and both of my sisters have turned against her.

I feel so hurt, but despite that I still don't know what to believe. I want my sister to not have been so mean, and I want my family to just be...normal.

Any advice is appreciated, thank you.