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Re: She's not the same anymore -
November 8th 2022, 09:50 PM
Hey there, thanks for reaching out! I think Dez gave great advice in the post before mine; but I want to share my advice as well. It seems like this friend only thinks about herself, turns the conversation so she's the center of attention, and can be emotionally, socially, and mentally draining. For me, I know I wouldn't want to be around someone like that, even if they're not outwardly toxic. Why you might ask? Because your well-being and mental stability matters!
You can try to talk to her in a calm, peaceful setting. But also ask yourself and play the scenarios out in your head; and you can do that with your boyfriend as well. Would it be worth inflicting it upon yourself if she reacts in the worst way possible? But who knows, she might react positively. Some people just need a rough nudge to change their behavior, not realizing they're doing something wrong; but others just don't care and will keep behaving the way they are.
Either way, if the friendship ends or continues; just know that you're doing the right thing. Hold on to the good moments. Forget the bad, let them go.
Wishing you the best of luck. Feel free to reach out again if you need to. 
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