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Re: Moving on is hard. -
September 24th 2022, 12:37 PM
Hi there, thanks for reaching out! I'm glad you decided to write about this, because it sounds like it's weighing heavily on your mind. I want to begin by saying the dream you had — the general sort where you are back at a place that once meant a lot to you, and you see the familiar faces you once loved so much; but the vibe just isn't what it used to be — is very common!
Sometimes dreams can be formed from actively conscious thoughts in our waking hours or it can occur spontaneously, leading us to actively think about it during our waking hours. I would take a step back and ask yourself if you want to get involved in the Church.
You said you've moved away from it, but still maintain your Christian faith. I would ask yourself “Do my beliefs still align with the Church? Would I be accepted or ostracized by the congregation for my beliefs? Would the same thing happen at a new church like it had with my previous one when I was younger?” I think it’s important to understand this: it’s perfectly fine to have your adjusted beliefs, but not necessarily be involved in the Church.
But being part of a congregation is a social outing, and you’d be amongst those with the same beliefs as you. It’s perfectly understandable why you’d want to get back to it, especially if being at Church was such an important part of your identity when you were younger!
If you want that community connection again, but don't feel comfortable returning to your old church, then I would suggest looking into finding a new place to call 'home'. Hopefully you find one that's right for you and you're able to form new bonds like the one you've had at your previous church. Wishing you the best of luck. 
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