[Arabesque- golfing girl.]

Hello and welcome to Teenhelp. Thank you so much for coming on and telling us about what you have been going through and I am sorry that you are having this happen. When you are a parent you always want to have the best for your children. When we are children and teenagers we may not see that you are truly just trying to help us with whatever we are going through. Sometimes we don't see it until we are older and then we finally understand why you all we're so hard on us. I also think that it is a good idea to talk to the other parents about everything that is going on. See if you are able to find a time that works for everyone. You can make a list of things that you would like to talk about with them so that you don't leave anything out. Sometimes if a parent had a problem with drugs or alcohol or something else growing up, they will hide this from the children. When some of the children are teenagers and they will start to get into this, it's a good idea to set them down a talk about what you went through and get them some kind of help. I hope that when you are talking to the other parents and to your son that you are able to come up with something to help him and everything will be okay soon. I wish you the best with.