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Re: Missing my mom - August 25th 2022, 09:16 PM

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So my mom passed at begining of june and we just had her memorial service 2 weeks ago. Im really missing her and my dad and me fight constantly even tho we dont live together it still is draining. Mom was only one who could control are fights so now im lost and i just want a hug and shes not here yo give it and i so just want to join her its all i been thinking about since she passed. Im supposed to visit her brother next week in philly but tho im excited i feel like canceling cause im afraid ill break down while there.
Hi Destiny, I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. Do you think it's possible to limit interaction with your dad, especially since it's causing you so much stress. You might be thinking "well, it's what Mom would've wanted" but I don't think she would want to see you so upset either. I seriously doubt she'd be super thrilled knowing you were thinking and feeling this way. I also don't think you should cancel the trip to visit her brother; and who cares if you break down? You're human, and sadness is a natural human emotion. Who knows, maybe your uncle needs someone to talk to as well, since it sounds like he lives far from you and your family.