[TH Anonymous]

[SIZE="a"]I've been living with my boyfriend for half a year and there are some things I like in him, and I feel I like him in general, but I know this relationship is not good for me.

He's not sociable at all, and I think that if I was with a more sociable person it would be easier to go out, make friends etc. Currently I don't have any friends here and we don't go anywhere, just staying at home all the time.

Another thing is that he's very unambitious, doesn't feel the need to get higher education, doesn't want to learn the language of my country where we're living etc. He spends all of his free time watching something or playing on the computer. I like playing games too but not all the time, I study a lot and like to learn new things and grow. I don't want to be with a person that doesn't want to develop in any way.


I told him all this but I think he doesn't understand. He says I am over-ambitious. Additionally, I tried telling him a couple times that I feel like ending this relationship; I did once and then I started crying uncontrollably and there was no much conversation afterwards.


There are moments when I am sure I will tell him, but then I come to our apartment, see him in front of me and I cannot bear myself to say anything. I don't know what to do.[/size]