[Arabesque- golfing girl.]

Hello, thank you so much for coming onto Teenhelp and telling us about this, you were so brave, great job.

I also think it's a good idea to try to become friends with this person. I look at it as everyone needs a friend and you sound like a lovely person. If you want to go up to this person and see if they would like to come over to your house to do homework and hang out with you and then you can start talking about anything else. I also think, don't just come out and ask about the self harm. Another idea that you can try is, when they are over at your house you can start talking about something that you or a sibling is going through and you can say how this upsets you and anything else that you would like to add and sometimes they will open up to you because you are sharing something very personal about yourself. Also you can go to the school counselors office and talk to them about this. You don't have to say the person's name. Try to find something to help you get your mind off of this for a while if it's upsetting you. Going for a walk around your house or reading a book for a while or drawing or painting or listening to music or watching movies or something else to do. I wish you the best with this and hope that you and this person will be okay soon. Also if you ever wanted to join Teenhelp you can. Thank you so much for coming on and telling us about what is going on. Sending you