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Issues with having children - March 23rd 2022, 10:37 AM

[SIZE="a"]I am 21 and my boyfriend is 24. He wants to have children, preferably a few, and he talks about it often. At the beginning we didn't talk about it much, because I said I would like to have children someday in the future and that was enough for him. But now he says he wants children in a year or two, while for me having a child in 5 years is the absolute minimum and to be honest I would prefer later, like when I'm 28-30. He says he will be 31-33 and that's too late.
I am adamant about my stance. I don't want children earlier than 5 years for sure, and probably that's too early for me as well.

We live together. I don't want to break up just because of this issue.[/size]