Re: Gender Confusion -
February 23rd 2022, 02:59 PM
If you're confused about your gender identity, then identifying as non-binary can be a relief from societal expectations about who you're "supposed" to be. Identifying as non-binary gave me this relief, and it was absolutely life-saving for me.
{I am Fae Queen Elsa, and I believe in full magic transitions from masculine to feminine. (I am anti-surgery.) I haven't witnessed a magic transition yet, but I believe this is possible, given the magic that I have experienced.}
In the realm of what is definitely possible, I'd like to share a special word with you: Maverique. There are three genders: Man, Woman, and Maverique. Maverique is the third option, and I identify as a Maverique to free myself from all the restrictions and expectations that come with being a woman.
My advice is: explore non-binary options if you're feeling uncomfortable with the binary you've been forcibly defined by. Identifying as non-binary also means you don't have to worry about "gay" or "straight."
You get to be who you are, and love who you love.
I would also suggest journalling about gender identity. Journalling helped me so much during my gender-based self-discovery. And always journal on blank (not lined) paper; because lined paper will cramp your hand painfully, and journalling should be non-harmful to your body.
Thanks for reaching out, and I wish you well with your journey of self-discovery.
<3 Queen Elsa
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