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Re: Idk -
February 9th 2022, 04:54 PM
Hey there! Thanks for reaching out.
There's a couple things going on here, it sounds like, but I first want to address what I think you're asking first and foremost, which is whether it's okay to like kissing a girl more than it is kissing a boy, and the answer is yes, absolutely. Sexuality is very much not black and white, and is often a fluid, ever-evolving thing. It is totally okay to enjoy kissing girls, or boys, or both!
However, it sounds like there also might be some complicated relationship layers going on here that may be making things more confusing. I am glad to hear your boyfriend respects your boundaries and stops when you say you don't want to kiss anymore, but if you really aren't enjoying being physical with him, you might want to consider taking some time to think about what you want and talking to him about it. Open communication is key in maintaining healthy relationships, regardless of whether they are romantic, sexual, or platonic. If this isn't feeling right to you, it's a sign something is off. Listen to that feeling, because the longer you ignore it, the more complicated things will start to feel.
I hope this helps. Please take care, and feel free to reach out whenever you need.
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