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Re: Knowing when to move forward -
February 6th 2022, 11:37 PM
Hey there, thanks for reaching out and I'm sorry you haven't gotten a response yet. I am so happy to hear you're in a healthy relationship with someone you consider safe. It seems to me — and I could totally be wrong here — that you communicated with your partner about what happened in the past. While I think that was great, it shows you trust this individual, I think it's also important to let them know that "hey, if I want to be intimate, it's ok" and communicate with them. No matter what side you are on with consent (ie, rejecting or approving) you still need to communicate with them.
Also, have you ever spoken to a licensed therapist about what you went through? If not, have you ever given it a thought? I'm wondering if talking about your trauma or any conflicted feelings you have right now, that will help you take that next step with your partner and be intimate with them. It'll probably alleviate any feelings you have with intimacy and your trauma.
It's definitely something to look into. 
I wish you the best of luck and feel free to reach out again if needed.
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