I don't know how old you are, but I know it can be frustrating to be the last one of your friends to experience something that seems to be a group experience already. But if it helps, I assure you each and every one of your friends was just as nervous and insecure as you before they started having sex. You are not alone, or weird for being the "last one."

Sometimes, honestly, being the last one can have an advantage, if you look at it the right way. If you've never had a sexual experience, it can be incredibly difficult to initiate or ask for what you want. But consent and sexual empowerment is incredibly important, and the earlier we learn that, the better sexual experiences we'll have. The same principle can also apply to all areas of life, which is beneficial to creating overall happiness with ourselves, our lives, and our choices.

Instead of waiting for a guy to ask you, and just do it with the first person who asks, I suggest you think about what you want, and take your time. Many guys earlier in their sexual experiences are more concerned about the experience than the person they have it with, unfortunately. There is no shame in going slow, taking your time getting to know someone, and then communicating openly and honestly about what you both want before proceeding. I've found that to be a more beneficial approach for people of all genders and sexualities, quite honestly.