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Re: A sad thing happened to me a few days after the kids choice awards last year -
January 18th 2022, 07:07 PM
The problem with social media is that there is no longer a strongly defined boundary between celebrities and their fanbase; and that is something I absolutely abhor. Celebrities are not meant to be your friends, no matter how kind and genuine their posts might be. It fucking hurts right now to hear that, I totally get it! But always perceive their honesty and truths with a grain of salt; because a lot of it might just be what their representative or publicist wants them to post on social media.
Was your message to this person on a public platform, such as commenting on a recent Instagram post? If so, then that definitely opens yourself up to vile comments from people who think they're so much better or wiser than other people; they may say stuff in a derogatory way, or they may be haters of the very person you love.
Seriously. Fandoms. Just fucking not worth it. I get wanting to express how much you love your idol; but there's no chance of them ever seeing it, if not very slim to none. They have such busy lives, such hectic schedules, they're not like us. They don't have the time or energy to shift through thousands of comments and private messages. Besides, if they've fallen victim to hateful messages in the past, they're not going to subject themselves to that time and time again.
Wishing you all the best.
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