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Re: Friend advice needed - December 8th 2021, 04:03 AM

[SIZE="a"]Thanks for the reply! I forgot to mention we did have a discussion where I expressed both feeling under prioritized and the way I feel about her constantly talking about/growing close with my high school friends. At first she was dismissive and was kind of gaslighting me and said I was the one who didn’t want to reach out to her and told me it was unreasonable to expect her not to have any connections, she also said she felt like she couldn’t discuss anything with me and I couldn’t be happy for her ever. And that just really annoyed me because even though sometimes I have a hard time not being jealous of her I try my best not to come off like I hate seeing her happy, plus as I said it’s not easy listening to her talk about her social life at university having a blast with all these ppl i know. By the end of our conversation we agreed to both be available to each other more and she said if I wanted she would take it down a notch with the constant talk about my old best friends. Though since this conversation we haven’t done many calls and during the few we have done she hasn’t been taking it down a notch as she said she would.[/size]