[TH Anonymous]

[SIZE="a"]I have mixed feelings about my best friend of 10+ years. She’s away at university and I feel like she’s been taking me for granted. it feels like she doesn’t make as much of an effort to reach out to me and stay in touch as before. And when she does it’s only when it’s convenient for her never when i initiate doing a ft/call and a lot of the time she doesn’t follow through and says she’s too tired, has homework etc. She’s also been spending most of her time with girls from my high school and some of them r ppl who I used to be really close with. and it really bothers me that she’s choosing to spend her time with the ppl she knows I used to be inseparable with and she knows I feel badly about drifting apart from them. I know i can’t tell her who she can or can’t be friends with but I don’t get why out of all the people at her school she chose the ppl who were my friends and she’s insensitive about it too she’s always talking about the time she spends with them and doesn’t recognize how her talking my ear off about all the fun she has with them could make me feel left behind and sad. (I also told her it made me feel that way and she said I couldn’t expect her not to make any connections but ended up agreeing to take it down a notch, and she hasn’t even after our conversation) sorry this is really long lol but basically even though I really miss her the fact she makes me feel like I’m not a priority anymore and the ppl she’s choosing to prioritize were my friends is making me resent her. any insights/advice on my situation would be much appreciated [/size]