[TH Anonymous]

[SIZE="a"]So my mum's friend has arranged a get together with her, me and my mum. The thing is, my mum's friend has previously said (a while ago) that her son is single and she and her daughters try to play match maker and find him someone.

I was previously pressured into a relationship with her son when I was around 13, by his older sister. A lot of time has passed since then, but I've only just started to take control of my life and started thinking about what I actually want from life (I have a history of going along with things especially if I feel pressured by other people) and I'm scared that I'm going to feel pressured into something I don't want.

There's nothing wrong with her son. I don't really know him, but I'm just not that interested in him. I wasn't when we were in school and I'm still not now.

Maybe nothing will happen and I'm overthinking but I can't ignore all these signs either.

I'm just really scared that I'll get pressured into a relationship with him and then feel trapped and stuck.[/size]