[Arabesque- golfing girl.]

Hi,

I am so sorry that you have been going through all of this with your father. Our parents should always look out for us when we are growing up, also help us out when we need it and never put us down. When they are putting us down all of the time and not helping us out with something, it is not a good feeling to have. You always want to do what is best for you, so that you are not getting upset or this keeps happening and it brings you down so much that you are hurting and you don't know how to be okay.

You have every right to not want to be with him now and also when it is Father's day. A lot of people do not get along with one or both parents or aunt's and uncles or grandparents or siblings and they do not talk to them anymore and they are children, teenagers, adults and elderly people.

No one should ever be put down. It really hurts us when this is happening and those people do not care about how it is hurting us. When it is Father's day, you can go out with friends to a movie or getting ice cream or out to eat or doing something else so that you are not thinking about what day it is. When you have time try to find something to help you get your mind off of this for a while, reading a book for a while or drawing or painting or writing or calling a friend or something else that you enjoy doing and hopefully this will help pick you up. I hope that you will be okay soon.