[Kate*]

You are in an amount of severe grief I hope I never understand, but at the same time, I'm judging. He was sick his whole life; you had him and you did the best you could, but what kind of quality is that? And, in the midst of that chose to have two more children, what kind of quality have they had, he's been the focus their entire lives. He's no longer suffering, and you have two more children who need you.