[Arabesque- golfing girl.]

Hello,

Thank you so much for coming onto Teenhelp and telling us about what you have been going through and I am so sorry that you are having a hard time with this right now and hope that you will be okay soon.

I hope writing this has helped you some. When we are writing it can help us some because we are getting some of the hurt out of us so that we can start to feel a little bit better. You sound like a lovely friend for her to come to you and tell you what she was going through.

It is totally fine to like or date whoever you like and nothing is wrong with you for liking that person. If you only want to be friends with her then try to find a time when it is just the two of you and let her know how you truly feel. That you like being friends with her, you don't have feelings for her in this way. If you are going to tell someone this, try to be nice because you don't want to be mean about it and it's better to keep you're friends than being mean to them. Say you have feelings for her and you would like to try and see what happens you can and if it doesn't work out then try going back as friends. You can also try making a pro and con list of liking her and go with that. No matter what happens being friends is great because you always get to hang out with all of them. I wish you the best with this.