[Mallika]

Hello Danni!

Thanks for reaching out.

Firstly, I think it's really admirable that you're so concerned and empathetic about his situation. I think it's a great virtue.

Sarah has touched on some great points and shared a good article too. I'll just add on and also say that you could talk to him about what he exactly wants. Every person is different and so is their way of grieving. Clearly, he is pretty hard-hit by the loss of his mother and it is no surprise that there are days he wants to be by himself.

One thing that I've realised is that just being there for someone can mean so much to that person. Even if you're unable to talk to him everyday, I'm sure that your presence in his life, your concern and care towards him will go a long way in boosting his morale. He's at a low point and will greatly benefit from moral support, so I suggest you ask him if you guys can have a chat. Whenever he's ready, you can ask him about how you'd like him to support him. That way, you would know exactly what to do. This way, I don't think you'd have to worry about overstepping.

I think he needs you at this point and will appreciate that you're by his side. Even if you're unable to check in on him every day specifically about how he is feeling, asking him regularly (or at a comfortable frequency) whether he's eating properly, getting enough sleep, etc. can mean much for him.

Take care and feel free to PM me if you have any questions!