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Hey Eli,
I've followed your journey for the past few years; while you were with your ex, breaking up with them, the time in between from then to now, and the two people you're currently seeing. I know you have a lot of self-doubt and criticism and, with everything you've gone through, that is perfectly fine.

You were in a relationship with your ex for about five or six years, and you lived in a home with several other people, and the relationship dynamic was poly-based. Now, you're pretty much in the same situation, except you are not living with this people, so I imagine that would feel a little strange.

Just give it time. COVID and being single for two years would throw anyone off, not just you. The feeling of being in a relationship will come back to you eventually. You know where to reach out if you have any more thoughts and feelings on this.

Take care of yourself, Eli!