[Psithurism]

I'm sorry to hear that you're going through a breakup. I know how difficult that can be, even when it's a decision that feels right for you. I think that anytime you have to make a decision like this, it's important to take some time to yourself and engage with things in life that you enjoy. Taking some time to be alone and at peace with yourself can really help you clear your head and more easily make decisions regarding your relationships with others.

Knowing what you want in a relationship, including the amount of communication that you expect to receive, shows that you have self awareness. This is one of the most important qualities that you need to have in order to have a healthy relationship. Self awareness is the ability to understand yourself and what you want. The other important thing is to take that self awareness and turn it into communication. You have to tell your partner what you need from them in order to make the relationship work for you. After you've sufficiently communicated your desires to your partner, it's up to them to understand what you need and to make it happen. If they're not able to do that, whether through a lack of trying or just a lack of compatibility, then you absolutely have the right to decide that the relationship isn't working for you.

There's nothing wrong with knowing what you want and choosing to pursue it. Some relationships will work and some won't. Be true to yourself and you'll find the ones that last!