[Everglow.]

Your friend is very lucky to have such a selfless person to help look out for them. If I was in the financial position to help someone like that I'd definitely do that myself. I think ultimately if you feel comfortable helping in such a way, you should be proud to do so.

I don't think it makes you a bad person to expect that to be paid back though, however I would consider letting your friend know this and maybe even getting something written down in black and white to avoid possible issues in the future. It can be an awkward conversation to have but 10k is a lot of money and I don't blame you for expecting it to be returned when the circumstances allow.