[FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""][FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""]I have been with a guy for three years and I am madly in love with him. Like all relationships we have had a lot of fights, particularly the last year and a half. The thing is that I feel like I always have to make plans. Sometimes he works a lot, but he’s usually off work before I am and he never just randomly comes over or even asks to see me. He will see me one weekend day and that’s about it, other than that unless I ask it’s pretty much nothing. When I try and tell him this is bothering me ( as I’ve been trying literally the last year of having this argument ) he becomes very defensive and it just leads to a big fight. It’s not just that, I just feel like our conversations are bland now. He is always talking about money. Money this, money that. He wants to he rich but I feel like he’s more interested in money than in me. When I tell him I want to see him more he gets mad and tell me he’s on his phone texting me all day. And we do text all day, but I don’t know why he thinks that replaces in person. I’m so hurt and I just don’t know what else to do.[/size][/color][/font][/size][/color][/font]