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I've been "dating" ny boyfriend for about a year now. I put in quotations because he hasn't yet asked to make things official.

I left for the military but due to things happening I got discharged and am back home. When I left he was all over me, sexually and emotionally. He let me in and talked to me and flirted with me plenty.

Now Im home and he's saying how his antidepressants have caused him to lose most all of his sex drive and feels like he's in a constant fog and can't really talk about it at all.

And I just dont really know how I can be there for him. I love him and want to support him. But lately I just haven't felt very wanted and desired. Which I know logically isn't the case, but emotionally I've been a wreck.

I want to be there for him and I also want to feel love and desired in my relationship. He says he's not asking me out officially until things are better. Which is like, I'm trying to be there for the hard times, not just when things are good.

Idk, I guess I'm just ranting about it but am also hoping for some advice as to help him but be okay myself too.