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Re: Sex is not feeling the same - September 29th 2020, 06:30 PM
I personally feel asexual a lot of the times, so I can relate to not feeling "into it." I suggest just listening to your body. If you are comfortable enough to get naked and have sex with your boyfriend, you should be comfortable enough to tell him that it isn't working in the moment! Sometimes people aren't horny and that's okay. You shouldn't feel like you need to have a sexual relationship with him in order to have a strong and healthy relationship. Just communicate with him how you feel. Sometimes when a person gets stressed, it is hard to get in the mood. Intimacy is a whole bunch of things, and I think you should start to think about what that looks like for you!

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