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Re: separated in an abusive relationship - September 16th 2020, 10:47 AM
I don't see what you did was bad. You love her and she loves you, as you've said. However, what she was doing wasn't fair on you. She knew she was doing wrong yet couldn't help stop herself from doing it. I think the distance between the two of you will help both you and her. She can focus on getting the help she needs, and perhaps an 'official' goal to work towards (getting back together with you) and you can have time apart to be free of her behaviour.

Sometimes two people have to be apart in order to be drawn closer together.