[Arabesque- golfing girl.]

Hello and welcome to Teenhelp. It is wonderful that you have joined us and thank you so much for telling us about what you have been going through. I am so sorry that you are having a hard time with this and hope that you will be okay soon.

We like who we like and that is totally fine. Nothing is ever going to be wrong with you if you like just girls or you like girls and boys. We all are different and we all fall in love with that person. Please do not be hard on yourself because you are not sure who you like. Also you are still young, you have a lot of time to figure out who you are going to fall in love with and be with that person.

What you can do is when you have time ask out a girl and then when you come home you can make a pro and con list of all of the things that you like and didn't like about them and then you can try this with a guy and write another one out. It may take some time to find that person and it is totally fine. Everyone is going to find someone to fall in love with, it may take some time it will happen.

With your parents, you can ask to talk to them face to face or you can write a letter and put everything in it and set it aside for them to read and at the end of this ask if you can all talk about this together calmly. No matter what happens, you are still you, a lovely person Try to find something to get your mind off of this so that you are not getting upset. Going for a walk or listening to music or drawing or painting or calling a friend or putting on a funny movie or TV show or something else that you enjoy doing. I hope you will be okay soon.