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Edit avatar · 08:04 PM

Your life should not revolve around one single person. It not only wastes your energy and puts you in a a depressed state of mind; but if that person ever found out, it would put so much stress on them. This person you keep mentioning in your threads on here and the aforementioned (but unnamed) platform is just trying to live their life.

Move on. This person may or may not even know who you are or remember you. There are bigger things to worry about.

If you don't know where to start, I suggest checking out resources available on TeenHelp. If you have the external resources available in real life, I suggest utilizing those as well. Join a youth organization, volunteer at a local shelter, do anything to get your mind off this person and move on.

Of course, if it's a real hindrance to your daily functioning; reach out to a mental health professional. They will be a wonderful source to help you find safe and healthy coping methods in moving on and, additionally, you can talk about why this girl is such a 'bother' to you.

I wish you the best of luck.