[user1123]

Hello,
my and my new GF had our first intercourse recently. She is very inexperienced (but not virgin), even though she is a few months older that me (25 years).
She confided to me that she has never had an orgasm, not even during masturbation.
I was kind of surprised since this is new to me. My previous GFs never had such a "problem". I actually never even heard of this possibility before.
We haven't discussed it deeper yet; she is a bit shy and I didn't mean to immediately dig in it. But I am planning to have some talk on this topic.


So I am wondering, is this a common phenomenon? I consider sex to be an important part of a relationship. But now I wonder, whether she even likes sex, when she cannot reach orgasm.
I would like to know more, maybe an opinion of some women with similar... I do not really like to call it a problem, but mindset? Or a guy, who had been in a relationship with this kind of a girl?