First of all, it's okay not to have a label. Sexuality is a complicated, life-long journey. There's always room for discovery. It can be very fluid and that's okay. It's normal not to "know what you are."

It's possible your bad experiences with men could be affecting your sexuality, but I don't think you should focus on that. I think it may be good for you if you let go of labels and instead just acknowledge and accept that right now you're more into AFABs. There's nothing wrong with that. It doesn't have to mean you're not bisexual or a lesbian. You like what you like. If you want to put yourself out there with woman, go for it!

I have a similar experience to you with my sexuality so if you ever want to talk feel free to PM me okay? Take care!