[CrusadingAvenger]

I think you're missing the point in what I'm saying here. Yes, everybody has their struggles, I empathize because I understand it's not easy to get over, and I never said it is easy to (or there's a one size fits all solution), but ultimately, you're the one who needs to pull yourself together. You need to change how you're looking at things. It fascinates me how almost everyone is okay with holding on to their excuses not to be better. People will ask for all the advice in the world on their problems, but most won't take it to heart and just keep creating the same problems.