[Arabesque- golfing girl.]

Hello and welcome to teenhelp. Thank you so much for coming on and telling us about this, also you did a great job asking for help with this. Please be proud of yourself for coming on and asking for help with this and saying what you have been going through. I'm sorry that you are having a hard time with this right now and hope you will be okay soon.

Your we're saying that you have friends at school but not outside of school. Do you have anyone who lives around you who is close to your age? If you do, would you be able to go and talk to them and ask if they would like to hang out with you? Or go and do something with you. Or go to the mall or rent a movie or get some pizza or anything that you enjoy doing. Or see if you can join a club outside of school and you will be able to make more friends. Do you like to draw or take pictures or read? If you do see if they have any drawing classes or a photography class or go to the library and see if you can join a book club and you can meet other people, start talking to them. Then you will be able to hang out with them too. See if they would like to do something with you. I know that it can be hard to just start talking to people who we do not know, but if you have the same interests then you can start talking about that.

When you do not get invited to a party do your best not to get upset. Ask one of them if they would like to do something with you and see what they say back. When you are upset try to do something to get your mind off of this for a while, going for a walk around your house or putting on music or funny TV shows or reading or doing something that you enjoy doing. I hope that you will be okay soon.