I'm not trans; however, there are many trans people in my life. I can't say for sure whether or not you're trans (only you can make that decision) but the trans women in my life have a different experience than you. For them they always felt "wrong," somehow. They felt uncomfortable in the body they had because it didn't fit how they felt on the inside (i.e. as women). They already had a "female" mindset because they were female (and that can look like many things). Then one day, or perhaps slowly over time, it hit them like a truck: they were trans. Once they transitioned they felt a lot more like themselves.

I agree with Jenna. It seems more like you're interested in disregarding gender stereotypes than being trans, but that doesn't mean you aren't. I suggest giving this topic a lot of thought. In my experience people don't generally "try out" being trans. It's a really big commitment, but one that's worth it if you're trans (in fact it's the only option to living a positive, healthy life). If you're curious I suggest trying out incorporating traditionally feminine elements into your wardrobe/grooming habits. See how you feel then. You may just be genderfluid or genderqueer, and that's okay too.