[Celyn]

I agree with everything that has been said. If you can't trust yourself to not hurt your girlfriend, then it's best for you both that you end the relationship and take the time to figure out why youare behaving this way, and what you can do about it.

You've done well in reaching out to us and it shows that you do want help. The next step is to figure out why you feel the need to abuse others- are you afraid that you'll be rejected from having sex? are you using sex as a way to fill another void in your life or abusing others to make yourself feel better? are you using abusive behaviours because it seems familiar to you/you have been abused? Whatever the reason, it's vital that you explore this and seek professional help such as counselling or therapy. This will help you to explore your behaviour and how you can change that so that you aren't hurting others.