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Re: I think I'm pregnant again -
February 4th 2018, 02:03 AM
Hello,
I am glad to hear that your boyfriend was supportive. I hope he will prove to be a great support person throughout this process.
If you are not ready to move in with him you do not have too. If you want to wait a while to figure things out than you can do so. My hope is that he will be understanding of the fact that you are nervous about the concept of moving too quickly. The thing to remember is that he cannot force you to move in with him. The best advice I can give you about talking to him about this is that you are honest with him. Let him know that you care about him but you want to take things slower and not rush into moving in.
In regards to telling your parents, if you aren't certain how they will respond it might be best to wait until you have another living situation figured out, even if it is not with your boyfriend. The only reason I say this is it would add a ton of stress if they found out and weren't supportive and you no longer had a safe place to stay. Once you have a safe place figured out you will probably need to discuss it with them as long as telling them won't be dangerous in anyway.
As for the VBAC, I am not 100% certain how that works either. I have a cousin that had to have a c-section for her first pregnancy and due to that she was advised by her doctor to continue having c-sections with her two other children. That being said, if you want to look into not having to have a C-Section you could probably talk to the OBGYN you will need to see at some point in the future. I do not have a ton of knowledge about it and since I am not/have not been pregnant I haven't looked into it. Although, my hope is that there might be a user/users here who will have more knowledge.
Best regards. 
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