College problem. -
November 26th 2017, 12:00 AM
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Recently two new people like joined my college class. we're a small class. about 8 - 10 of us in one class. these two new people are making my college life hell. one of them i've like had problems with in the past, his girlfriend not so much... however the guy i'll call him SC has been causing alot of problems for me. 1. he knows i do not like being touched or having people in my personal space yet he will like come stand right infront of me invading my personal space i will step back to get space between him and me but he will like step forward and invade my space.
2. he knows i like routine and like to have the same seat in class etc yet this week SC and lets call her SL have both been sitting in the seat i like to sit in... i wouldnt like have a problem with this if they were innocently doing this but SC like actually says to me 'we're sitting in your seats where you like to sit' so its like being done with some sort of malice knowing it will like get a reaction from me.
3. SC keeps like talking about chopping me up and making me into a curry or putting me in an oven and roasting me..... and using my blood as gravy... i've told him to stop but he continues to say this.
4. On friday both SC and SL to my face called me annoying... and told me to shut up...
5. they both feel like it is pretty much their place to comment on the coca cola i drink (diet coke) and when i do and dont drink it.....
6. SC and SL have both called me out on my time out of class... like if i need the toilet during class i will ask the tutor if i can go to the toilet but SC and SL have both started like commenting about me and making comments to me like cant you wait till break - or you should have gone in break then a few minuets later one of them will ask to go to the toilet....
7. They both seem to whisper about me, they will look me and laugh and then liek whisper about me then look at me and like start laughing....
8. they have begun to make personal comments about me and my fidget spinner comments like 'oh you have to go to the front of class and play with your fidget spinner now' . the thing is im not like playing with it... im using it in class to help me concentrate the tutors are like fine with it, im not like waving the spinner around i just hold it in my hand and spin it or fiddle with the parts of it, the spinner like helps me concentrate.
The tutors are my college are aware of this, my friends who I am like actually friends with in my class have noticed it too.... yet at other times SC and SL are quite happy to ask me if they can borrow my stuff like my pens, pencils etc i allow them to use my pens etc ... the tutors are aware of it all..... alot of what SC and SL are doing is being done with the intention of like getting a reaction from me.... and if i do stand up to them one of them will like cry and say im being mean to them.... i cannot win... its making not want to like go into college... but i've managed to like keep me 100% attendance...i just dont know what to do.....
'There will be bad days, there will be good days, there will be really bad days, and really good days, and days that are not bad or good but just simply suck, but either way you got through it and you are here today and that is all that really matters''
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