[Storyteller.]

You don't have to understand somebody's identity or experience for it to be valid. You also probably shouldn't go out of your way to flaunt your ignorance like that. If you don't understand something, do some research to see if that helps. And if it doesn't, just remember that your broad sweeping generalisations apply to real people who have real feelings and probably have enough negativity in their lives without an inconsiderate stranger adding to it. Let people live their lives the way they want to and stop being so bitter about things that don't even affect you. Everyone will be better off for it.