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I think first you need to sit down with your boyfriend and have a heart to heart and explain your concerns. I know that your 1 year old daughter is your everything because I just recently had a baby boy who is 2 months old and he is my everything. I am not in your situation as I don't have a boyfriend and am younger than you by a little, but I do think that is your first step to talk with him. Ask him what his expectations are in going out with both you and your daughter because it is certainly different than when he just takes you out. See if you feel 100% comfortable with what he says and go from there. It will always be a touchy thing as to if your daughter will get attached and if you and your boyfriend will work out for the long run, but sooner or later he is going to have to be introduced to her and see how it goes.