Hey,

If you are close to your parents and they are open about this type of stuff I would just sit them down and ask them. If they aren't open I wouldn't ask them i would just buy one. I don't go to shops to buy mine. I buy mine online and they are really discrete about how they ship them so it is obvious what it is.

I hope this has helped a little bit.

Your Friend,
Essa<3

Sorry miss read it. I would definatly discuss this with your partner if you want to use it while having sex with them. It is always good to have an open communication with them.