[Kate*]

Not only do I not have to fix you, I CAN'T. You are not entitled to be taken care of, to treat us unfairly, or to throw constant tantrums and complain that you're worse off than everyone else, even if they're going through the same thing or something worse than you. You aren't the only one going through physical pain or horrible stuff that isn't your fault, but you're the only one not taking responsibility for it. You're the only one who can change that.