[Kate*]

You realize that I actually agree with you and was making your point don't you?! Just because I chose to point it out in a specific context based on my personal experience doesn't mean I was "wrong" or "victim blaming" the rest of humanity. It's actually the complete opposite. I'm also using a topic-limited platform. If and when you want to address this issue in a broader context, feel free to find a way to publish your own work instead of picking mine apart for saying something it actually doesn't. And I think you mean the second paragraph. If you're going to nitpick and be self-righteous about it, at least articulate your petty judgments correctly.