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Re: How do I tell my boyfriend that I'm a lesbian? - May 10th 2017, 12:08 AM

Hey,

I think the best thing for you to do is to be honest but kind and to do it as soon as possible. Just tell him that you're sorry it didn't work out but you're not interested in men, and you can also tell him that you like him as a person and want to be friends (if that's how you're feeling). Like I said, it's better to do it sooner rather than later to avoid dragging out the relationship when you know it's not going to work out.

Also, if it's just telling him you're a lesbian that you're nervous about, you don't have to tell him that detail. You could just politely tell him that you're not interested anymore and you don't think it's going to work out.

Hope that helped! Feel free to shoot me a message if you need anything or just want to chat



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