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Re: His parents don't accept me. - March 6th 2017, 11:58 PM

Hey,

I am sorry this is happening to you. I come from a pretty conservative country. Even though my parents don't have rules like this, I have friends who have to follow such rules. Many of them have bent or broken these rules and chosen to stick with their partners, irrespective of them being from different religions.

Truth is, I cannot tell you if he will break up with you or not. Like it has been said above, if he likes you he won't leave you. But sadly, since he is not 18 and still living with his parents, he might get influenced by what they say if they time and again harp on it continuously. You said he is pissed about this rule but has he in specific words said he does not agree with this rule? I personally think you need to ask him straight up where the two of you stand, now that his parents are aware of your relationship and don't agree. Maybe his answer will help you prepare for whatever is going to happen in your relationship.

I hope he decided to stick by, if he doesn't it only means that you deserve someone better. If someone chooses to stick to an age old rule and not stick by you, I think it answers it for you.

I hope things work out for you. I am here if you need someone to talk to. <3

Take care,
Kav