[Chai.]

Hey Harland,

I don't think you have messed up. I can't say for sure if your girlfriend is acting weird or not but if you feel she is, then I think you should talk to her about it. It could be that she is struggling with something else, maybe school or family and that is taking a toll on her. There is a possibility that her being distant has nothing to do with your relationship.

Your feelings are valid. I personally would freak out if someone started being distant and told me everything was alright. Honestly, given the distance, I don't think you have many options. Since you can't go and see her, maybe give her a few days. Continue talking to her but don't bring this up. See how things go for a few days. She might tell you about whatever is bugging her but if she doesn't you could broach this topic again if she continues to be distant.

For now, all you can do it wait for her to open up to you. Let her know that you are around to talk to if anything is bothering her.

I don't know how much this helped but I hope things work out for you. Let us know how things go.

Good luck and take care,
Kav.