[TheCrow8]

I've been with my girlfriend for 4 months now. She has been somewhat dependent on my help which I'm okay with but starting a couple of months back, her negative attitude has taken its toll on me.

She has this attitude of completely giving up and pulling herself down when the slightest things go wrong. She has a tough family life and she struggles in her academics too which I understand but her attitude towards it has been what's gotten to me. I've tried as best as I can to support her through being the positive one in the relationship as well as helping her out in her studies but neither have worked.

Lately I've gotten so tired of it as it has become a daily thing for her to complain and pull herself down because of something. Our chats and texts have gotten so toxic because of this that it has made me not want to hit her up when I get home and so forth. I've discussed with her how the behavior has been difficult for me and she promises to change but she's still struggling.

How do I help her out in the process of changing and how do I help myself out in terms of "resting" to fix my worn out self?