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Re: Extreme pre date anxiety -
January 3rd 2017, 04:07 PM
Hey there,
I agree that there is absolutely nothing wrong with you not having kissed anyone in a while. I didn't have my first kiss until I was in my 20's. I think that it can seem like other teens are more romantically involved than you are but a lot of the time there are just as many teens who are not experiencing those things.
I think that nervousness over going on a date is quite common. I know that every single date I went on made me nervous. The thing is, you don't know this person as well as you could so you are probably stressing about how to make the date perfect. The thing is that no date is ever perfect and all you can do is go and be yourself and hope that this guy enjoys the time spent with you.
Do you have other concerns relating to the date that are stressing you out? It might help to talk about them a bit.
Lastly, if you feel as though you are going to turn to the negative coping skills I suggest you look into the Alternatives to Self Harm this can help you find healthy coping skills and might prevent you from doing something harmful to your body.
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